I have been mute for about 4 weeks and I apologize. I am not sure why I have been so quiet, but it has been a very busy month and life got ahead of me. We have made lots of memories. Maddie graduated from Kindergarten, Jamon (the big kid) returned home from college for the summer, I was able to go on a Girl Scouts field trip, and we spent lots of time just spending time.

I am back in the chemo chair, today is day 3, and my final day of round #5 of this “stint of chemo” aka round 19 overall. I am doing well tolerating the chemo and just a little beat down and fatigued.

It’s amazing how I forget what chemo is like in just the few weeks between each round. I forget the soapy taste I get in my mouth, the rosy cheeks from the steroids and Etoposide (chemo drug), the foggy brain, slightly blurry vision, lack of concentration, yucky tummy, and lots more. A friend once told me that she was told by a friend going through chemo that it was like all your thoughts were on sticky notes and these notes were scrambled all over the wall. This is so true.

It is all tolerable but annoying and it gets old. But, all we can do is giggle through it. If not, we would be angry and when I am angry, I shut down even more.

So, let’s talk about food. After chemo, everything tastes funny. Well, I should say after all the chemo I have had my taste buds seem permanently effected. However, the days after chemo are the hardest. For me, I have to eat. If I don’t I feel worse because the food seems to help me tolerate the chemo drugs better. Heavier basic foods like baked potatoes, plain pasta, cream soup, noodle soups, bagels and fresh fruit and veggies like tomatoes and avocados are usually what works the best. I do like it to have flavor though that can mask the soapy metallic blah flavor the chemo leaves in my mouth. I cannot tolerate fried foods, fishy foods, or heavily cooked foods. Even wild never frozen salmon that I like is super fishy in this time frame and super yucky.

Ironically, every time it is a little different though. Last night, we went to dinner at a Mexican restaurant here in Tampa. Those who know me know I enjoy a good Margarita. I took a sip of my friend’s beautiful purple Margarita (no clue what kind it was) and wanted to gag. Then after seeing an amazing looking big glass of chocolate pudding with homemade whipped cream being served to another table, I had to have one for dessert. I thought it was the best thing I had eaten all day. Creamy, chocolaty… YUM!!! I noticed my tablemates were not as eager to eat it as I was and we didn’t finish it. As we walked to the car, I looked at Wallace and said “wasn’t that pudding amazing”. He proceeded to tell me it was pretty yucky. It was gritty and had too much cinnamon and nutmeg in it. Mind you I didn’t taste that. All I got was a smooth sweetness that masked the soapy yucky taste in my mouth.

Today, trying to stay hydrated is a challenge because the water tastes like the plastic bottle, but I am trying. I am pledging to my friend Stephanie that I will start juicing again this week. I need the nutrients and immune support. No more catching my kiddos crud.

More posts to come, no more being mute. Day 3 of chemo is over. The adventure continues with a PET scan at the end of the month and more chemo the first week in July. Thank you for all your prayers, positivity, support, and encouragement. I will be mute no more. #webelieveinmiracles #fightingthebigbug